Monday, April 16, 2018

March for Babies.... 4/29/2018

Hi We are once again walking in the March for Babies to help raise money for the March of Dimes.  17 years ago our daughter Emily was born very very premature and without years of research and breakthroughs much funded by the March of Dimes, she may not have made it.  So we've walked in every March for Babies since to show our gratitude. 

Please help us with a small donation.

Go to my fundraising page...


 www.marchforbabies.org/meliwil

Tuesday, March 6, 2018

Responsible gun laws NOW

My two cents for what it is worth... I don't care if you are a hunter, I don't care if you want to "protect" your house. I care that guns are killing our children. So if that means taking guns from you to protect my kid... you better damn sure know I would. BUT... I don't believe "responsible gun owners" are the problem... I believe that UN-Responsible gun owners are.... like the ones who don't keep them from their kids, the ones full of such zest for guns they let their unstable kids have access to them, the ones that are gun collectors who become negligent with how they get or sell them. Or worse. We need gun laws, that protect our citizens. SO please stop making videos telling us how the AR15 is the same or less dangerous than other guns, you are just giving the future school shooters ideas. Also perhaps "kids" are using the AR15 because it "looks" cool... high school kids, after all, are often times shallow. It is a fact that this gun is often the gun school shooters use. Point blank.

Monday, January 8, 2018

Florida Vacation-Part 1

So in November, we went on a trip to Florida.  I've been meaning to blog about it since, wow... I'd make an awful "This just in" type of reporter...lol.  But anyway,  Our family along w/ extended family went to Orlando for a week.  What was best about this vacation is that we managed to relax & have fun as well.  Our sister in law Debbie planned the trip.  She loves Disney & their family has taken many many Disney vacations so we felt ecstatic that she was taking the reins of the trip.  We knew we'd be in good hands.  Debbie was great & included us in the planning, we were grateful for her expertise.  She knew what websites to use, when & how early to make reservations, etc.  She was wonderful & we felt lucky.  She really was such a blessing to us & allowed us to not stress over all the planning.  I could not be more thankful.  Our trip started on Friday November 3rd,  we were driving down from NJ but we got on the road a little later than we had hoped but managed to get on the road by about 3:30 pm (Emily needed to go to school that day... she'd be missing 3 days as was) BUT that became a little bit of an issue only because we had reservations at Hoop Dee Doo Revue dinner show for either 5 PM on Saturday.  Brian did a great job driving & we didn't stop to rest that first night until sometime around 2 in the morning.  One of the more humorous moments came that first night when we pulled up to our "crappy" just for sleeping, roadside hotel.  Right in front of our room in a trash can was the bottom half of a BIG stuffed bear, all that could be seen was his butt and feet.  I just about died from laughing so much! After many "Ted" drinking jokes and pictures we finally went to bed. 
 The next morning we got up around 7:30am and continued the rest of the way.  We got to Orlando about 1:30/2 pm or so, we thought we'd be ok but since check in wasn't until 4 pm at the condo's we were staying at, we ran into a little bit of a delay when it came to check in.  They were willing to let us check in early but none of the condos were ready and so by the time we got in the room I believe it was a little after 3, & we all had to still  get showers.... we ended up being late to dinner but i guess Disney accounts for that & although we were a little late, we really didn't' miss much.  It was yummy & fun!  They served fried chicken,  cole slaw, corn bread, beans.. etc.  It was really good.  Emily was even able to order mac & cheese!  Everyone had a great time... Emily seemed to have a great time X's 10.  It was wonderful seeing her enjoying herself so much!!!! She loves musical theatre so this was right up her alley. We had a great time and even a bit of a "Disney magical" moment at the end of the dinner.  The table next to ours was a table full of young ladies in maybe their early twenties celebrating one of the girls birthdays.  When we were about to leave, one of them asked Emily what her name was and how old she was.   Then she asked her if she wanted this cute pair of Minnie mouse ears she had gotten which were too small for her to wear.  They were super cute!!!  Emily said yes, and I was like, why? Are you sure?  & this sweet young lady was like, "absolutely,  I hope she enjoys them!"  When we went to the park.. we saw they were like $29.99!  I was like WOW! Super nice of that girl and a great way to start the vacation w/ kindness like that! I was feeling the feels! The next morning we slept in and didn't do a damn thing except maybe go to the grocery store. We also each took hour-long baths in the ginormous tub that was in the master bedroom.  LOL! That's what I call relaxing.  Brian & I even got some Epson salts to throw in there to ease our aches & pains! It was wonderful! We knew the next three days would be the busiest of the vacation and we wanted to be as ready as we could be.  This is what happens when you get old...lol  We stayed at this resort called Liki Tiki village or something like that.  Jim & Deb were staying at the wilderness lodge at Disney so we were able to stay at their timeshare.  It was a really nice place, with a washer & dryer in the suite and a full kitchen with a separate dining room & a private bedroom for Emily too.   

Friday, September 15, 2017

Retail funnies

So I work retail,  I'm a shift manager at a "Major" drug store.  Isn't that what they would always say if you were a contestant on a game show in the 80's?  So lately there's been some really funny or at least I think they are funny things that have happened at work.  I do actually enjoy my job. Not of course all aspects of it, but I like keeping busy and interacting with customers & co-workers. The other day our Asset protection district manager comes in for a visit.  For the sake of the story, I'll just call him, "Roc" anyway Roc is talking to another worker we will call "Juan", anyway I go into the office where they are talking & say something like this,
"Excuse me?  Did Juan tell you about the bacon we found?"

Roc is like, "No... what about bacon"  

So I say, "Well we found this rolled up bacon package that we think fell out of some shoplifters pants,  It was rolled up in a ball & when we found it it was still cold, so I think I have a pretty good idea who attempted to steal it" 

Roc than says, "Really, wow people are crazy" 

I'm like,  "Yeah and that's not the only thing, we also found a 1 1b container of butter that was crumpled up.  SO we are assuming the person who stole it must have put the individual sticks down his pants too and left the container,  I guess it was easier to conceal that way." 

Roc says,  "Wow!  Bacon and Butter" 

To which (without missing a beat mind you) I say.... "Yeah, hasn't he heard about the ongoing cholesterol problem in America"  A nod of course to the greatest movie of all time, "My Cousin Vinny"  

He looked at me like I had two heads, so I don't think he got it. 

But I thought I was HYSTERICAL!


Here's another little gem.

I have this co-worker (& friend) name "Liza" that was working one morning & I didn't come in til after she had already left for the day.   The store manager always leaves a daily note for the shift managers about what we have to get accomplished for the day.  Anyway this particular note also included what was said that morning on the weekly mandatory manager's conference call.  One of the notes from the call was,

-All employees must be in their work clothes, including name tags every day.
  To which Liza writes under it, -CANCEL PAJAMA DAY! 

 I about died,  I thought it was the funniest thing.  It just tickled my funny bone.  Even now I think it's brilliant.   I mean cause what do they think?  That we are a bunch of morons.